I ended up going with an ivory dress so my flower girl will also be in ivory so we're the same color and my dress doesn't look 'dirty' next to her, esp since she's my daughter and will be in lots of pics! Should FH and the guys wear an ivory shirt, or would they be fine with white? My dress is on the lighter side of ivory, but when trying them on and it was next to a white dress it was noticeable that the colors were different. I'm just concerned if I go with white I will look a bit dirty compared to them, but I also don't want to go ivory and have it be a deeper shade and look off. Suggestions?