I had a day-of coordinator for the wedding. She left a whole bunch of stuff back at the venue, which I noticed the day after the wedding. I emailed both my day-of and the venue coordinator for the items (they were expensive things like brass candelabras and mercury votives) which I received responses saying that they'd look into it. 2 weeks later, I return from my honeymoon overseas, and email them as follow-up -- only for the venue coordinator to state that the contract states that ALL items must be removed right after the reception and they do not keep anything afterward and it gets all thrown out. Who's at fault here? The items left behind in total cost me $500 or so... this is frustrating to say the least, especially since one of the items was my welcome sign that my now-husband constructed himself and it was pretty personal. What can I do?