Hello ladies! i am in a bit of a predicament: the top of the lace that's on the neckline of my dress rubs against my neck and makes the side of my neck blotchy looking and red. i had a alteration appointment yesterday and the seamstress said she couldn't do anything about it. the consultant at the dress store suggested I rub clear chapstick or vaseline on my neck and it would keep my neck from getting red. Anybody having this issue or have some advice?