It hurts ..

I’m sorry that you all had to experience this, you are in my thoughts as I send much love and light your way ❤️

View Quoted Comment Thank you so much 🙏🏻 I really appreciate it .

I know nothing seems to ease the pain right now but my FSIL miscarried 2 days before Christmas and she was devastated. She’s due with a little girl in on Tuesday!! Keep your head up, unfortunately it is so common but now you have a little angel looking over the both of you! ❤️

View Quoted Comment Yes I’ve came to terms with the fact that it’s not your fault and it’s nothing we could’ve done to prevent it from happening. I am keeping my head up and we will try again , until we are physically and mentally ready anything is possible .

A couple of things the doctors told me when I had one, that gave me comfort:

* Early miscarriages are completely random. So the fact that you've had one in no way means you're more likely to have another.

* The most common reason for early miscarriages is that something went wrong with the initial conception, so the fertilized egg was incapable of dividing. Sooner or later, your body will reject such an egg. So it wasn't a case of losing a growing fetus, but of something that had no chance to grow at all.

That doesn't mean it isn't sad. For a long time, I would think I was over mine, and suddenly something would trigger me and I'd be crying again. But at least you should know that it means absolutely nothing in terms of your being able to have a baby later on.

View Quoted Comment Yes that is so true , educating myself in miscarriages , and watching successful rainbow baby stories after a miscarriage, opened my eyes . We have a 5 year old son already and this was my first miscarriage. I won’t let this jump in the road subtract my baby dust , I’m still hopeful and I’m still excited to try again . Doesn’t mean at random times I don’t cry because a loss is a loss but I’m blessed and god will bless us with our rainbow baby . Thank you so much it’s always good relating to someone who went through it as well .

I'm so sorry

View Quoted Comment Thank you so much , day by day that’s all 🙏🏻

I'm so sorry!! I can't imagine how you feel, I'm 12 weeks and that's honestly one of my biggest fears.

I’m so sorry ❤️ Sending love and light your way honey

Omg i am so sorry. sending love and prayers. God bless you both and your beautiful angel

Miscarriages are mother nature's way of proofreading. As much as it sucks, it would suck more to have a child that would live for a few hours or suffer their entire life because of a horrible genetic mutation. I can't say I understand, but it's all for a reason.

So sorry to hear. Sending you positive vibes.

Oh, I'm so sorry!!!

I've had two miscarriages in my life, and it's one of the worst things you'll ever go through. But this is fairly common, and doesn't mean you won't have a successful pregnancy the next time. I look back on my miscarriages now as a blessing in disguise. If not for them, I wouldn't have my beautiful daughter!!

So, mourn your loss, but not for too long! When it's meant to be, it will happen! My love and prayers to you and your family.

My deepest sympathies.