Just wanted to send some encouragement to you ladies! I’ve seen a ton of posts asking or talking about the lack of interest or help from their significant others, which doesn’t help since most of the planning falls to us and we bear all the stress.
Stay positive ladies 😊Me and my FH are about 4 1/2 months out and he just started getting involved. I have him 2 tasks which were the photographer and dj since he is in the business and knows people and then of course ask his groomsmen and get them setup with tuxes. This man just started becoming more actively involved in the planning lol. He procrastinated so much he literally just asked his brothers and nephews to be groomsmen. Granted they are family and coming to the wedding but still i think he should’ve asked sooner. We finally have the dj and he is working in the photographer.
But definitely try not to stress too much. Hopefully getting them involved with the larger tasks and not the small details will allow them to be more open to the planning process.
Best of luck to you all and happy planning! ❤️