Is your moh receiving a better gift?

Nope. I don't plan to.
If I were, I'd do it privately tho.

Yes, my MOH is getting some extra gifts and I’m paying for her hair and makeup. This is just between the two of us though and the other girls won’t know.

You most certainly can if you’d like, but I wouldn’t do it in front your other bridesmaids. Keep it on the DL to avoid hurt feelings, because you just never know what might rub someone the wrong way.

No not really everyone is equal.the only difference I would say is I got her something extra but it isn't related to the wedding it was just because. But if you want to it makes sense to and wouldn't be rude or anything.

I think it's okay to give your MOH something extra, as long as it's private between the two of you!

So far all of my girls are getting the same thing, but I’m sure I’ll toss something special in for her.

Great answers ladies. Thank you, I will do it in private! I want to buy her ALL the things! She’s the best!

I don't mean to hijack this thread, but I have a related question. My MOH's birthday is 2 days after our wedding. I was thinking of getting her a gift card for a luxurious prenatal massage (she will also be about 6 months prego at the time), which is definitely more than I am spending on each bridesmaid (I'm unfortunately on a low budget) so would it be weird if I gave her a more expensive gift because it was also combined with her birthday gift?

I agree I would do it privately. My MOH a d brides
maids are getting same gift. But to be fair my one BM is in medical school and the other one is 10.

My MOH was my sister and did alot more than the other girls so I did get her something extra but ad everyone else I would do it in private or discreetly if i were you

I am doing just a little bit more for my MOH (my sister). She has been a total rock for me with everything going on in the planning. At her wedding, she also gave me a super sentimental gift that I could never ever think of. I don't think it is bad at all. She is you MOH and I think most bridesmaids expect that kind of thing.

Id just make sure you do it privately so that there is not an opportunity for hurt feelings or drama.