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Beginner August 2021

Is this silly to stress about (not wedding related)

Jen, on July 30, 2021 at 10:37 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 5
This is my first wedding and my fiance's second. He met his first wife in Utah, moved to Grant's Pass Oregon and then Vegas where they eventually split.



Fast forward 5 years, we met in Vegas, moved to Utah and now are thinking about moving to Grant's Pass Oregon for a job opportunity.
Is it silly to think we're reliving his first marriage just based off the places we live/will live?

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Latest activity by Jessi, on July 30, 2021 at 12:27 PM
  • Jessi
    Super October 2022
    Jessi ·
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    I don't think you're crazy for noticing it and being like "Huh, that's odd," but I definitely don't think it's anything to stress about! Sometimes life takes you in weird places... like in circles lol. it happens. As long as he isn't spending most of the time comparing and contrasting your relationship to his past one then it's not an issue.

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  • C
    Super July 2020
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    It’s definitely a bit odd especially since it’s not major cities where coincidence is more likely but he probably has a network in those areas? Are you wanting to stay where you are or excited for the move? I get feeling weird about it but unless he’s going to be seeing people from his “previous life” it doesn’t sound like a real issue.
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  • J
    Beginner August 2021
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    Oh yeah. It's nothing like that. He doesn't want/have anything to do with his ex. It's just odd like you said. Haha.
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  • J
    Beginner August 2021
    Jen ·
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    I am excited about the move. It's just odd how his life took him in a big circle. Haha.
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  • Jessi
    Super October 2022
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    It's not exactly the same, but my fiancé and I often go back to the town I went to college in for vacations. I had 2 boyfriends while there, one I really fell for and that all ended badly, so it was weird at first going to the places I went with my exes again with my fiancé. Now it's turned into something where I want to go to places to make new memories with him instead, so I don't think of others first when I think of those places. I'm sure your fiancé is also excited so make new memories in those "old" places with you!

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