Is it weird to have the groom’s bout the same?

My FH's will have a slightly bigger rosebud than anyone elses, but I'm not positive anyone will actually notice. I wouldn't worry about it, and you could always add a different tie or pocket square if you really want him to stand out.

No one else will even notice.

It's a minor detail, I don't think it's something to stress over. My FH's will be a tad different, but barely. His dad will match the groomsmens.

I think it'll be fine! I've never seen a groom's bout. be different than the rest of them, but it may just be because I didn't notice. I wouldn't stress over it!

My FH will have the same bout's as everyone else, but he'll be the only one in a navy suit, the groomsen and fathers will be in dark gray.

I had all the men with boutonnieres get the same size. i didn't really make his different at all just because he was already the only one in a grey colored full suit. all the groomsmen were in suspenders. so it kind of felt like he already stood out enough

I've seen them done both ways, it all depends on what you want. Our florist is making my FHs boutonniere match my bouquet only because she already has the materials.