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April 2018

Is it really bad if a dinner table needs to be taken away for the dancing?

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GoodMOB, on April 10, 2018 at 12:59 PM

Daughter just mentioned this to me as an option today; we are using All Seated, and figuring out the seating for her venue. We aren't sure yet that this will be necessary, but if it does turn out to be crowded, is that a horrible option, to remove one table? We could make it be a table of young people who are likely to dance a lot. Or is it better to just put all the tables (round) closer together in the first place, to avoid removing one? Also, after the dinner is finished, the buffet tables could be moved, and smaller cocktail tables set up in that space, so would that be OK, if some people lost their table?

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Jordan · on April 11, 2018 at 3:52 AM
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This is pretty common at weddings I've been to. I've sat at these tables several times and it hasn't been a problem, it all works out! Usually in these cases they put a little note on the table that says something like "This table will be removed after dinner is finished to make room for dancing!" Or something fun. If you don't have to do it, great! But if it has to happen I wouldn't worry! We haven't done our seating chart yet, but if we end up having to do this I'll just choose the people who are seated at these tables carefully!
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firstoneat56 · on April 11, 2018 at 10:07 AM
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I've been to a lot of weddings and other formal events and I've never seen a table moved. I'm not sure how one table could make such a significant difference in the amount of room need for a dance floor. I would suggest shifting some tables if you have to, but not removing them.
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MrsV1027 · on April 11, 2018 at 10:46 AM
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I wouldn't completely remove a table. People may be putting their things and drinks on it and it would be a little awkward if 1 table was just gone.
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Anna · on April 11, 2018 at 1:42 PM
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I don't think it's really bad. I would definitely suggest to squish the tables and move a couple things around first before taking the table away. Or can you ask if they take the table away, can they leave the chairs? That way the seats will still be there for people to put their stuff or butts on.
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FutureMrsS · on April 11, 2018 at 1:57 PM
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We will taking some tables away at my wedding reception, but we will be sure that there is plenty of seating for those who want to hangout and talk, instead of dance. I don't think it's the end of the world at all.
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Lynnie · on April 11, 2018 at 3:00 PM
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This was my backup plan in case we had a crazy high RSVP rate! It isn't ideal, but it's way better than splitting your guests up into different rooms or not having a seat for everyone!
If we needed to do this - I was going to take away our table and 1 or 2 other the bridal party tables. That way I could warn them beforehand, and I thought my friends would be more flexible and could easily move their purses and jackets to another one of the "friend" tables!
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Jordan · on April 12, 2018 at 5:05 AM
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I would really try to avoid that. People leave their coats and purses on the tables.
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The Nuptials · on April 12, 2018 at 7:44 AM
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I like this over taking a guest table, remove your own table or VIPS tables. Why can’t you and your family get up OP? I would not assume all young people dance or can go without a seat for that long. Young ladies also have some of the highest heels on.

I rather her be tight and out of the way then be asked to move - so your second option and I’m in my late 20s.
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