My first cousin, who is like my little sister, will be 9 years old by the wedding. When I got engaged last year her first question to me was if she could be the flower girl. Of course I said yes, because she is adorable and has everyone wrapped around her finger.
Anyway, right now we don't have a ring bearer. Our only option is my FH cousin's son who is 4. They also have a daughter who is 7, who I feel like we would have to make her a FG too so she's not left out. I have never meet them before and FH has never been close to them. When I asked my FMIL she said she didn't know if they would even come to the wedding and didn't know if they would want to be a part of it. (She's not sure if they will want to travel with 2 younger kids.)The only reason we would ask is to have both a FG and RB.
Is it okay to have just the FG? Or should I make her a Jr BM instead?
