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Just Said Yes October 2017

Is it ok to have no alcohol at our reception?

Sky, on March 23, 2017 at 12:36 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 143

Hi everyone, My fiancée and I recently found a wedding venue that is perfect. It's a church that will allow us to use their hall for the ceremony as well as the reception hall. We aren't required to pay any fees, just a simple donation. Meaning we're essentially getting the venue for free! (don't...

Hi everyone,

My fiancée and I recently found a wedding venue that is perfect. It's a church that will allow us to use their hall for the ceremony as well as the reception hall. We aren't required to pay any fees, just a simple donation. Meaning we're essentially getting the venue for free! (don't worry, we're donating around $500)

Everything is perfect but the main hitch is that we won't be able to serve any form of alcohol. Not even a champagne toast =(

I was wondering how much of a negative impact this will have. Both of our families aren't shy, but it takes a little bit to break out of our shells. The drinks would've helped with this.

I understand and agree that the guests should be there to celebrate us getting married, and not to simply get drunk. We are using the venue regardless bc everything else is perfect. I would just like to know how to deal with the whole thing.

Should I put it on the invitations "No alcohol will be allowed."? Should I not have to say anything?

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    Rosario ·
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    Don’t change your venue. Just let the guest know and if some don’t show up because of there being no alcohol that’s on them for missing out on such a big moment in your life. Enjoy your day!
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    Judith ·
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    Not true under any traditional etiquette. No host is ever obligated to serve any alcoholic beverages at all. And huge numbers of church halls, museum or historic mansion venues, libraries with huge entertaining spaces, old palaces, and any non-restaurant building or outdoor space in most state and all federal parks and forests. All those places do a huge business in weddings . Also, no one ever must serve alcohol to guests in their home. You may want to drink wherever you go. But it has never been standard etiquette for someone to need to serve alcohol to be considered a good host. It is not something people are entitled to have available, free or for purchase. Ever.
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    Judith ·
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    I agree. Anyone who would not come celebrate with you because they can't get a drink (alcoholic) , doesn't think you are worth much to begin with. Why would you want that person, who clearly is not a close friend?
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