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veronica
Dedicated October 2012

Is it ok to have 4 bridesmaid and 2 groomsmen?? Help..

veronica, on August 13, 2012 at 2:10 PM Posted in Planning 0 17

My wedding is only 68 days away and ive decided to have 4 bridesmaid and 2 groomsmen. Is this ok? Does anyone have any ideas on how they should walk in?My FH doesnt want to add anyone else. ..................ugh

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Latest activity by Samira Ghazi-Tehrani, on August 13, 2012 at 11:32 PM
  • Carrie
    Master December 2011
    Carrie ·
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    Perfectly ok. Each GM can have two bmaids on his arms when you exit Smiley smile

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  • SophieMuffin
    Super May 2013
    SophieMuffin ·
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    Its perfectly ok. walking in i would have the girls do the normal thing, walking out just 2 girls per boy, i think that looks cute Smiley smile

    for pictures you can just stagger them again every other girl boy situation. i think it will look fine Smiley laugh

    I will prob have 2 girls and 3 boys so meh, uneven is ok now a days



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  • WasSoon2BMrsSmith
    Master September 2010
    WasSoon2BMrsSmith ·
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    We have 4 girls and 3 guys, I think it's find unless you're super anal retentive and need people to match in height and stuff too.

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  • Ashley
    Devoted October 2012
    Ashley ·
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    Totally O.K. we have 4 bridesmaids and 5 groomsman Smiley smile

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  • veronica
    Dedicated October 2012
    veronica ·
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    Oh wow! Thanks ladies!!!!!Great idea!

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  • LovelyBride430
    Super September 2013
    LovelyBride430 ·
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    However, you want...

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  • Jackie
    Just Said Yes August 2012
    Jackie ·
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    We had 3 bm and only one gm. Lopsided, but no one noticed (or at least no one said anything). I had the best man and maid of honor walk together and then the two remaining bms walk together (none arm in arm).

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  • W
    Dedicated September 2012
    Wanda ·
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    We have 1 bm/moh and 2 gm. We are having the flower girl walk with one gm, who happens to be her Daddy! :o)

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  • H
    Master October 2013
    HalloweenBride ·
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    We have 4 maids and 3 groomsmen. I'm all for the not matching. Though people kept saying this weekend "Oh he can ask so and so, or what about this person?" It's like, "he hasn't seen them in years...."

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  • Anonymous
    Devoted October 2012
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    Yup! We have mis-matched numbers as well. Just have two bridesmaids with each groomsman. Perfect!

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  • LadyHopkins
    Super May 2012
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    We had 4 bms and 2 gm. My sisters were my maid and matron of honor so they walked alone. Eh, they like attention anyway, lol.

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  • Courtney
    Super November 2013
    Courtney ·
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    Silly question! Of course it's okay!! It's your day, there are no rules. You will figure it out and it will be wonderful.

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  • Nancy Taussig
    Nancy Taussig ·
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    I have noticed that regardless whether it is 1 guy w/2 gals or 1 gal w/2 guys, the one in the middle is grinning from ear-to-ear.

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  • veronica
    Dedicated October 2012
    veronica ·
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    Thank you ladies!! Sometimes we let small stuff drive us crazy !!!

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  • Robin A.
    Master July 2012
    Robin A. ·
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    Short answer: yes, it's totally fine!

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  • Spicydeene
    VIP October 2012
    Spicydeene ·
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    Hi Date Twin!!! Is it 68 days? *sigh* I agree with the ladies - YES - totally fine!!

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  • Samira Ghazi-Tehrani
    Samira Ghazi-Tehrani ·
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    It's your wedding. do what u want. i shot a wedding once where the bride's brother stood with the bridesmaids throughout the ceremony. he wasn't technically a friend of the groom, but was still part of the wedding party. it made for really cute pictures.

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