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Is it ok not to cry???

Hibrides123!!, on November 25, 2013 at 3:39 PM

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If hubby doesnt cry will you be upset?LOL. If the man does/doesn't cry does it make a difference? To be honest, I dont want to cry because I can cry a whole river. LOL OPINIONS??? THOUGHTS???

If hubby doesnt cry will you be upset?LOL. If the man does/doesn't cry does it make a difference?

To be honest, I dont want to cry because I can cry a whole river. LOL

OPINIONS??? THOUGHTS???

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  • Theresa Beale
    Master November 2014
    Theresa Beale ·
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    As long as he's at the end of the aisle, I will be happy. I think I will probably cry (he did say if I walk down to A Thousand Years he may cry but we will see when the day comes).

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  • About to be Mrs. Nic
    Super September 2014
    About to be Mrs. Nic ·
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    FH keeps saying he's "worried" that he's going to start crying. I told him he better effing cry. He said if he needs to, he'll start thinking of sick puppies or something to make himself cry. I already told my bridesmaids they better cry too.

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  • Rubicole
    VIP August 2014
    Rubicole ·
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    He's normally really composed, I've only seen him completely break down once (very sad night, it made me hurt seeing him like that). He did well up when he proposed which touched me so deeply, so he might well up when he sees me walk down the aisle (no first look, he's really adamant about that). If anything, he might have a goofy grin, which I'll take!

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  • Mrs. A. Fernandez
    Master August 2014
    Mrs. A. Fernandez ·
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    I am emotional enuff for the both of us(Leo n the house!!) My fh is not emotional, but if he doesn't cry, I will still see the emotions on his face.

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  • kahlcara
    Master August 2013
    kahlcara ·
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    My H didn't cry during our ceremony, but I did, through the whole thing (and grabbed his hands way earlier than I was supposed to).. he spent most of our wedding ceremony asking me under his breath if I was ok and what was wrong. I've only seen him cry a couple of times, when something was REALLY wrong, so I'm kinda glad he didn't.

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  • StephGoods
    Super July 2014
    StephGoods ·
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    It wouldn't bother me at all. FH is not a crier to begin with. I don't particularly want to cry, but a couple of tears would be okay.

    ETA: it's absolutely okay to not cry.

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  • HopeRebecca
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    HopeRebecca ·
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    DH shed one single tear when he said his vows, causing me to cry through mine! Smiley smile I didn't expect him to do it

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  • We'llAlwaysHaveParis
    Master November 2013
    We'llAlwaysHaveParis ·
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    There's no right or wrong reaction.

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  • MissMadeline
    Master June 2014
    MissMadeline ·
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    I hope I don't cry, but I know I will if I see FH shed a tear!

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  • FutureMrsZottola
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    FutureMrsZottola ·
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    Everything makes me cry.... I will be a hot mess all day (or so I think) but I have never seen FI cry before so if he gets choked up or if his eyes water a bit I will be pleased LOL .... he said he thinks he will cry that day (that makes me pretty happy!) I am hoping I can keep it together though, I don't want any ugly crying from me that day!

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  • Nicole
    Super November 2014
    Nicole ·
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    I think FH will definitely cry, he did when he proposed, he even got teary eyed when I surprised him with getting my license. He's told me he's going to cry at the wedding. I would completely be okay if he didn't, because I really won't be able to control myself if he's doing it lol

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    Master July 2014
    Soon2beMrsLittle ·
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    I laughed when i read this beause FH and i just had this convo the other day lol. I am a VERY VERY EMOTIONAL PERSON lol sometimes when Im thinking about me on my wedding day i get teary eyed so you know ima be balling crying on the day of lol, as for him NOT lol he is no where near emotional lol NO WHERE NEAR! but who knows....... he might surprise me lol

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  • Mrs. Kommeren
    Master December 2013
    Mrs. Kommeren ·
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    It would not matter one way or the other, b/c I will probably cry for the both of us, LOL. I am big cry baby.

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    Hibrides123!! ·
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    I'm not alone. LOL. Like many have said....There is no right or wrong reaction.

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  • Jemma
    VIP July 2014
    Jemma ·
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    I don't think my FH will cry, but I probably will. I literally SOBBED all the way through my best friend's wedding (who is also my MOH) which you can hear on the wedding video. Soooo embarrassing! I hope that doesn't happen to me at my wedding!

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