Is it bad to not want the ceremony at his family's church?

I moved out of state to be with my fiance. We will be getting married out there since it's where we will be living. His family attends a Catholic church nearby (we're both Catholic). It is the closest church and his mom is an active member. I just don't want to get married there. I'm not a fan of the aesthetics. There's no parking, no real reception space. Plus the way they celebrate Mass is different than I'm accustomed to. I'm the type of person who has gone to many different churches and has preferences on the way Mass is celebrated. I just don't really clique with how it is there. He agrees he would rather have it somewhere else too. It will be at a Catholic church, I just want it at a different one that I feel more at home at. It seems to be ruffling some family members' feathers though, and I hate conflict. They just don't see why I would go to a random church and not one where they know people. I'm not sure if it's worth it anymore just cause I don't want to start any issues since I just moved here. But it just feels like it's more about family than my own opinions at this point so I don't want to give in and give up on my vision. Any thoughts?