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Is anyone else happy they are marrying their fiancé but no longer excited for the wedding

Stephanie, on March 1, 2021 at 5:38 PM Posted in Planning 0 6
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I feel overwhelmed with what we still owe on the wedding. Not to mention we are remodeling a house we bought in January. The wedding is in June and w destination. I am not excited about my dress. I probably wont Even get it altered at this point.
It's small ceremony i didnt want beach but we are doing that and im good with it now. It was what he wanted. I wanted a couple of days 1 or 2 just us together . Our kids are older and my oldest was gonna take the 2 girls who are 15 and his daughter 14 for a night. He said no we just do something later in the year.
He said this wedding got bigger then i wanted. Its 20sih people. He is using his DJ laptop for our music. I wanted our first dance etc and just some simple music. My daughter is throwing us a party for people to come since its destination so probably 50 people total. He complains he didnt want something big but appreciate the gesture and will be fine with it.Just sucks i was so excited at first and over months and time. I'd almost think get married at court house. Love him but I don't love how im not excited anymore. I havent Even ordered invites for people yet

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Latest activity by Stephanie, on March 1, 2021 at 11:45 PM
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    Lindsey ·
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    I’m definitely getting to the point where I’m getting nervous planning all these last details and second guessing even having a wedding in the first place. I think that’s pretty normal! I’m excited to marry my fiancé, and realistically I’m super excited for the wedding I’m just letting the stress of everything get in the way of my excitement. Maybe that’s the case for you?!
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    Stephanie ·
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    Could be sounds like it. I think i was so excited and then he seems less excited. Never talks about it that now i kinda feel like why am i doing this anymore really. I feel like im doing this for my kids and the people coming. I have even listed some wedding stuff i bought for sale and decided not to use it anymore for the wedding. I feel like why am i putting so much effort and work into making it look nice when doesnt really matter one way or another. No one will notice or thimk much of it. Probably a bad attitude but i just dont care anymore about doing it lol
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    I'm the exact same way. I'm so excited to marry my fiance and become his wife 😁 I'm excited for the wedding but im a person who has anxiety and lets things stress me out to easily. I try not to let the stress and anxiety get to me. I have been planning my wedding for almost two years and I just want it to be here already.
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    That's exciting for you for sure. Im sure your day will be a happy one
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    Kylyn ·
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    I've been feeling this way despite my wedding still a long ways off! Wedding planning is so stressful 😅, but I'm sure all of this work will pay off once the day arrives!
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    Stephanie ·
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    The thing is i don't feel stressed i just dont want to be bothered by it. I dont feel good in my dress and veil.i literally took 5 minutes for my hair piece picked the cheapest one and called it a day lol.
    I told him pick music and let me know what im walking to
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