If so, what are you having your priest, reverend, minister, officiant say about this? I'm trying to find the proper wording and i'm having a hard time. The original woman who was due to marry us (who backed out last week) said she had never heard of it, but she was really inexperienced. Now the new woman says she's heard of it but isnt sure what to say and would research it. But i'm writing most of our ceremony so I'm trying to find what will work just right.
Any suggestions?? Thank you in advance!