My FH's has a married couple he's been friends with for awhile. 1st night I met her, she actually hit on him all night, but I brushed it off. I've tried to give her chances over 5 yrs, every time she's abrasive, passive aggressive and just rude. She can't even have dinner without complaining the whole time and insulting ppl within earshot. It's just one passive aggressive thing after another. Still, I always agree to give her a chance and see them. It's clear she has some issues, and I'm just ready to let that ship sail.
However my FH wants to invite them to the wedding. I'm of the opinion that anyone who does not support both of, should not be there. Since she's also a wedding planner, I know she'll complain around my guests the whole time. This girl couldn't go out to dinner without being rude to ppl 5 feet away (for no reason!). I don't want any resentment in my relationship, but I don't want that negativity at my wedding! Am I wrong to stand my ground here?
