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JaQuaya
Devoted October 2014

Inviting parents of wedding party ?

JaQuaya , on March 24, 2014 at 5:03 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 24

What's the etiquette? I suppose since your BP is your nearest and dearest it would only make sense that the parents are invited but what is everyone doing? For example, one of my BM I've been close with for the past 7 years but I've only interacted with her parents when I was in her wedding 2 years...

What's the etiquette? I suppose since your BP is your nearest and dearest it would only make sense that the parents are invited but what is everyone doing? For example, one of my BM I've been close with for the past 7 years but I've only interacted with her parents when I was in her wedding 2 years ago at wedding activities. For the record, she didn't invite my mom to her wedding but she's never met her either.

WWYD

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  • Z
    Master May 2012
    Zoe ·
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    It really depends on how well you know the parents. Out of 6 attendants, total, we invited the parents of two people (and one was my sister Smiley sexy). One GM's parents had been *critical* to us dating in the first place, and they're great people, so they were invited, no one else's. And when people in the BP got married, they didn't feel obliged to invite our parents-- not even the guy whose parents we invited-- he barely knows our parents.

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  • Pezzy
    Master May 2014
    Pezzy ·
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    I've been friends with one of my groomsmen for 15 years and I've never even met his parents, even though he lived at home when we first met. No need to invite all parents...

    On the other hand, I've known my best man for 19 years, he was 16 when we met, and His parents know me very well. He's my best friend after all. They are invited, as they have always been gracious to mem letting me stay at their home, etc. etc. they are, however, miserable people and I pray they decline.

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  • ChewBekka
    Expert February 2015
    ChewBekka ·
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    Nah! Only f you know them on a personal basis and want to invite them.

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  • Out the Window
    Master May 2014
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    If you're close to them and you can afford it then send out the invitation.

    I'm not close to any of my bms parents so I didn't send out an invitation, but we did invite all of the gms parents because Matthew is close to them.

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