Inviting coworkers at new job

I didn't invite anyone and I have worked at my job almost four years.

I only invited people that I hung out with and were actually friends with outside of work

I'd skip them. My rule was to only invite coworkers I see outside of work, because they're legitimately friends.

A good guideline is to only invite coworkers with whom you have a social relationship outside work.

I am in the same boat, and I am not inviting any new coworkers. My office is small, so if I invited my closest colleague, I would have to invite everyone so as not to offend. I also don't hang out with anyone outside work yet, so that is another reason

If your wedding is fairly inexpensive and casual then I would say go for it if you feel like it (ex. We are doing a buffet and an extra person would probably only cost ~30 assuming food, beer, etc.). If I worked in the town where I'm getting married I would have invited more coworkers. Since ours is 6 hours away I knew my colleagues wouldn't bother going and I didn't want them to see an invite as a gift grab, so I only invited my two closest work friends.

I wouldn't invite them if you're not close and don't have a relationship in or outside of work, I wouldn't.

No. Keep biz and personal separate.

No need. I notice the rule is if you hang with them outside of work (and that doesn't include Thursday happy hour) then they should get an invite. If you haven't forged friendships yet no need to invite.

I wouldn't invite them, you have been there less than 3 mo. Try not to talk to much about the wedding, very likely they don't expect to be invited.

No don't invite them . They might be asking to be polite or make convo ...

I'm in the same boat, I've been at my job for a little less than 5 months and I won't be inviting any of them to the wedding -- there aren't that many people I go out of my way to interact with on a daily basis, and none that I hang out with outside of work. FH is in a different position, he has two coworkers that he cycles with several times a week and another who we're both friends with and who comes over to our house fairly regularly, so those three are invited.

I didn't invite any of mine and didn't even consider them. Just say you just having family and close family friends.

You haven't been there for very long and you haven't built a relationship with anybody. Don't invite

Easier said than done but I would not invite anyone from work. You have an opportunity to set the standard and keep your personal life separate from your professional life. I would jump on that ... but hindsight is 20/20.

I'm inviting two girls at work, we all started together almost two years now, we get drinks at least once per month and we text and talk at a personal level often. You have only been there a few months, I'm sure they are not expecting an invite!

I didnt invite anyone from my job since I have been there less than a year. I don't have a relationship with anyone outside of work. It was an easy decision.

I only invited the two women that sit next to me, one of which is my partner in my department. I invited them for that reason alone.

I never see these two people outside of work, but I have gone to lunch with them and shared a good amount of laughs, and arguments. I knew if I didn't invite them, they'd both be hurt.

I wouldn't. Unless you made friends and hung out outside of work. Other than that, you are friendly business acquaintances. I've been working at my current job a year and a half, I'm friendly with a lot of people here but the only one I'm inviting is my boss. We are very close!

I think the general rule of thumb is, if you hang out with them outside of work and are actually "friends", then an invite is warranted. Otherwise, don't waste the money!

I work with over 300 people at a company I've been with for almost 10 years. I'm "work-close" to many of my coworkers, whom love asking and hearing about my wedding plans... I'm only inviting 5 of them. (One is a BM, three are close friends, and one is my boss - who took me out wedding dress shopping).