Invites

I actually have the same question... interested in hearing responses.

I would because plans always change.

I would not. But that's just my opinion. I can give that invitation to someone else.

Yes! Their schedule may change or they may want to send a gift even if they can't go. It would be weird to me to get a save the date and not an invite even if I couldn't go. I'd expect an invite to get website information for registry gifts & an address where to send it.

I probably would because anything can happen. They might be able to go later down the line.

I would, just as a sign of courtesy. It would be nice to know, as a guest, that I'm still being thought of, even if I'm not able to make it.

I wouldn't. If they already stated they cant come.

If I had the “extra invites” (ie. I bought a set of 40 but only needed 33), I would. If I had to buy an entirely new set of invites to send them one, I wouldn’t. That’s kinda strange lol but it just makes more sense to me to see it that way.

We've had a few people who simply are making excuses for not wanting to come to our wedding (family drama) and after receiving the save the dates, have expressed they will not be attending. We'd be foolish to still send them an invite after that. But besides that, it would honestly depend on the situation.

I guess it depends their reason. If it was something that doesn't seem like there's a chance I might not send them one

We did. Fiance's uncle told us he couldn't come but still plans to give us a gift. We sent him and a couple others invites anyway. We had extra invites. So we sent them, and bumped people up from the want to invite, to definitely invite list.

I would. Depending on the person who knows, they might want it as a keepsake or something anyways! Plans can also change as well

I did. Plans definitely can change that far out and they were invited guests (since they got a std) so they still needed to get an invitation. Our invitations went out two weeks ago and I haven’t gotten an rsvp from them yet (it’s online so a lot of people have already responded) so we will see if they think they need to rsvp or not. Personally I think they still do need to rsvp 🤷🏼‍♀️ We will see what happens, but definitely send the invitation

I don't think you have to if they already said they weren't coming. or ask them if they want one as a keepsake if they are close to you.

Yes, you should still send them an invite. A Save the Date is exactly that, it's telling people to save the date. It's not a formal invite or a request for a response.