Invites, invites, invites!

In any situation we have where adult children still living with their parents, we’re sending multiple invites to the house. I can’t imagine having received an invite to a friend’s wedding as an adult and having my parents listed on the same invite.

In this situation, you can probably get away with one invitation per household. Just put all the names, or something like, "Mr. and Mrs. John Smith and Julie Smith" or "Mr. and Mrs. John Smith and Family."

The adult children should receive their own invitation.

Etiquette is that every adult (couple) should receive their own invite.
However, I had friends/family who lived with their parents or lived w/ their siblings & I didn’t want to send multiple invites to the same address (in this case it’s a know ur crowd as I would receive comments about too many invites) - so I sent 1x invite to the address, the front envelope had all the names, and I included the appropriate amt of RSVP for adult couples.
Example - 2x of my cousin’s (1x married, 1x single lives with my aunt & uncle). 1x invite to the house, 3x RSVP cards, 1x for my aunt & uncle, 1x for my cousin & his wife, & 1x for my other cousin

View Quoted Comment I think this makes the most sense.
When I lived with my parents we were all invited as The LastName Family but on here some people think it's rude?
I think doing it all together when they'll be in the same car and hotel room (I know that's how they travel) seems logical to me. 🤷

Honestly I'm lazy ahah and want to waste little so I'd just do one for the household

View Quoted Comment I feel this 🤣😜

We sent 1 invite per household, regardless if an adult lived with their parents.

I sent

Mr & Mrs Smith
Karen Smith

We sent separate invites to adult children, but we were also giving adult children each a plus one (none are dating anyone that we know of, or we would have included the partner's name on the invite, too). With three adult children in one house, I thought the RSVP situation would get dicey if I just sent one invite.

I also have a weird situation where my mother, my grandmother, and my aunt and uncle all live together. That household got three invites! But I didn't want any of them to feel 'cheated' on an invite.

My brother still lives at home with our parents, and I'm only going to send them one invitation and label it the Diez family. I will give them 3 spots on the RSVP card. My brother tends to date around, and he's ALWAYS between girlfriends. I don't want him to bring some random girl to my wedding, so he's not getting a plus 1. BUT if he starts dating someone now, and they actually become serious, then he will get his own separate invite with the plus 1.