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Anna
Savvy December 2016

Invite to reception only

Anna, on February 10, 2016 at 9:25 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 42

Hi all, I'm looking for your thoughts on a intimate ceremony with a large reception. I've been going back and forth with wanting a small wedding, then changing my mind and wanting a big one. I really don't want to walk down the aisle with a whole lot of people watching. It kinda frightens me and...

Hi all,

I'm looking for your thoughts on a intimate ceremony with a large reception.

I've been going back and forth with wanting a small wedding, then changing my mind and wanting a big one.

I really don't want to walk down the aisle with a whole lot of people watching. It kinda frightens me and I'd just prefer an intimate ceremony with family and super close friends there. I feel like that would be perfect.

However, I do really want to celebrate with everyone after. For me, an intimate ceremony with a large reception after sounds ideal.

Then my mom said that people may feel upset if they aren't invited to the ceremony, and she said some may not come because of that.

So how would you feel if you were invited to a reception only? Of course the invite wouldn't say, "you're not invited to the ceremony," rather it would express our desire to celebrate our marriage with you at the wedding reception."

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    February 2020
    Amy ·
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    I disagree my brother is doing this and I would rather being going to see him get married than the reception where I have to socialize with people I don't care much for. I'm not bothered about a reception party when all I would want is to see him get married. To me it seems gift grabby. I think this all depends on the who you invite to what... I have a different perspective I guess.
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