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Sara
Savvy August 2019

Invite Time

Sara, on May 21, 2019 at 8:15 AM Posted in Planning 0 16
Hi! Getting invitations done & had question re time: do we put:

A. Actual ceremony time

B. Time they need to arrive by

C. or put both, starting w ceremony as time, followed by note to be there by such time to be seated?

16 Comments

Latest activity by Sara, on July 11, 2019 at 10:35 AM
  • J
    Master October 2019
    Jolie ·
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    You always put the actual ceremony time. You can mention on your wedding website or on details card to arrive promptly or before the start time. I have it under FAQ on my wedding website!

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  • SraDeCarrillo
    Super August 2019
    SraDeCarrillo ·
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    The time on my invitations will be an hour before our ceremony start time. For us its a know your crowd situation. We have a lot of culturally acceptable chronic lateness. If we throw them off by an hour they should get there on time lol. My officiant suggested that invitation time be at least a half hour before ceremony start time just in case.

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  • Sara
    Savvy August 2019
    Sara ·
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    Ok thanks y'all! Appreciate it Smiley smile
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  • Mrs. H
    Master September 2019
    Mrs. H ·
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    Definitely just put the ceremony start time; however, if you do need people to arrive earlier, I would put that time under your FAQ portion on your website.


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  • Sara
    Savvy August 2019
    Sara ·
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    Ok thanks so much for everyone's answers! Appreciate it
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  • Ansley
    Dedicated February 2020
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    I asked my officiant this same thing because I was worried that if I put "5 PM," people would be parking their cars and moseying up at 5 PM instead of in their seats. My officiant said to list the actual start time and people will be responsible enough to be seated by the ceremony start time (hopefully... Smiley smile)

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  • Danielle
    Master June 2019
    Danielle ·
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    Actual ceremony time.

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  • Sara
    Savvy August 2019
    Sara ·
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    Ok thanks Ansley, & Future Mrs. H! 🤞 my family & friends so. I've got a website too but not everyone's techy & the ones that are say it's been tough to access 🤔
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  • Mandi
    Master October 2020
    Mandi ·
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    We are putting 3:30.
    We probably will start a few minutes later than that.
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  • Sara
    Savvy August 2019
    Sara ·
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    Ok thanks Danielle & Mandi! I just want to get as much across as I can in invites, prob even listing the brunch items somewhere lol
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  • Cortney
    Dedicated July 2019
    Cortney ·
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    I put the actual ceremony start time - people should know how to be responsible adults and get somewhere at least a few minutes before the start time for something so important. If they don't then that's on them, not me. I also would be frustrated as a guest if I arrived somewhere (probably a little early) to find out that I was actually over an hour early because they didn't use the actual time.

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  • Sara
    Savvy August 2019
    Sara ·
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    Thanks Cortney, good point, yeah I'm between ppl arriving too early or too late & just hoping they know too
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  • Sinéad
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2025
    Sinéad ·
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    Hey Sara! How did you invitations turn out?

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    My friend put ceremony start time but on the bottom in smaller font he asked to arrive by a certain time to take your seats
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  • Sara
    Savvy August 2019
    Sara ·
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    Hi Sinead! Really great thanks for asking!
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  • Sara
    Savvy August 2019
    Sara ·
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    Very smart, Melle, thanks for that!
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