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CountryBride
VIP April 2022

Invite them or not too

CountryBride, on June 21, 2021 at 3:09 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 10

So I started to pick out my bridal party and my 2 cousins lets call them K,A always assumed they would be apart of the bridal party, they were making demands that I have to invite this person or they wouldn't be in the bridal party, I can't get pregnant or else they wouldn't be in the bridal party, so I decided to against the drama and pick my two friends my best friend and my sister, I really don't want to invite them because they are very immature and would do things to ruin the wedding for example wait until I am walking down the aisle and walk right pass while giving the finger, pass body gas loudly, they are very immature and I don't want that at my wedding, Do I have to invite them cause they are family? My mom says that I have too I don't really want too. my fiancé says don't but I don't want to get anyone pissed off,

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Latest activity by Peyton, on June 23, 2021 at 12:48 AM
  • Sheree
    Savvy April 2022
    Sheree ·
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    Don’t invite if you don’t want to, it’s your wedding and if they aren’t contributing in anyway then you don’t have to especially if you believe they will cause problems. You can deal with the fallout later. I’m not inviting my half sister that hasn’t spoken to me in 3 years even though my mom wants me to invite her because “I should be the bigger person” nope it’s my wedding and I don’t want her there.
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  • A
    Super December 2020
    Anais ·
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    They sound terrible. You don’t have to invite anyone you don’t want to. It is possible that some people get pissed off but honestly that might be worth dealing with instead of dealing with these girls at the wedding.
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  • AJ
    Super October 2022
    AJ ·
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    I wouldn't invite them

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  • Michelle
    Rockstar December 2022
    Michelle ·
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    Don’t invite them and cut them out of your life if they are toxic. You don’t have to invite anyone you don’t want in attendance, family or otherwise.
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  • Stacey
    Super May 2021
    Stacey ·
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    Stop allowing your mother to influence your decisions.

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  • Ava
    VIP May 2022
    Ava ·
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    Agreed. You are a grown woman, and your mother does not need to be influencing so many important decisions in your life.
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  • Elizabeth
    Dedicated October 2021
    Elizabeth ·
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    Sounds more then immature. Sounds toxic.

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  • Elizabeth
    Dedicated October 2021
    Elizabeth ·
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    You don't have to allow toxic people in your life, even if they are family.

    It’s Okay To Leave Toxic People Behind – Even If They’re Family

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  • M
    VIP August 2021
    Michelle ·
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    I'm a big supporter of boundaries. Kick them out of your life and tell your mother, no.

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  • P
    Devoted April 2023
    Peyton ·
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    Wow. How horrid. I would absolutely bar them from coming near your wedding.

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