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Invite or not to invite

Bridgette, on February 8, 2020 at 6:08 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 8

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I'm planning on inviting friends from college, like a bunch of us lived together for a year and we're all really close. However, there is one friend, who I did live with for that year, that I don't really want to invite. She and I were always on the verge of snapping at one another. She and my fiance don't get along at all either, but would it be horrible to invite my friends and not her?

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Latest activity by Sherry, on February 10, 2020 at 3:22 PM

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Samantha · on February 8, 2020 at 6:23 PM
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Not horrible at all! If you don’t get along, I doubt they would want to take the time and money to attend in any case.
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Nicole · on February 8, 2020 at 6:23 PM
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It sounds like she’s not much of a friend, so if you do offend her by not inviting her, would you really care all that much?
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Gen · on February 8, 2020 at 9:04 PM
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I just would keep in mind that she may be offended if she isn’t invited. Do you care if she’s offended? If not then don’t bother inviting her. If you don’t want to offend her, then just extend the invite to avoid the drama. If she does come, you don’t have to spend any time with beyond just thanking her for coming.
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Bridgette · on February 8, 2020 at 9:06 PM
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That's a very good point, thank you! I'll keep that in mind
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Jamie · on February 9, 2020 at 9:05 AM
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Only invite people that when you think of them it brings you good memories and put a smile on your face
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Kaysey · on February 9, 2020 at 10:49 AM
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It's your wedding and you should invite who you want to invite. If you don't get along with her and your fiance does not get along with her, there is no need to invite her.
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Taylor · on February 10, 2020 at 10:03 AM
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Nope. I graduated from college last year and I am only inviting two or the three girls that I lived with. Me and the third girl might have spoken for a total of 30 minutes over the course of an entire year. I haven't talked to her since I left in May. I wasn't going to waste an invitation on someone that I'm not close to.
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