Invite list issues

Hey, I had the same issues when we started planning our wedding. Our goal was 50 ppl but we went over that a little. My MOH told me to look at my call log n see who has called or checked up on us in the last year. Those are the ppl we invited...that included friends and family. Weddings can get really expensive quickly only invite those who are truly happy for you family included. Try not to lose sight of what you guys want it’s one day to have it your way

Our list was broken down into 25 for each set of parents and 50 for us. The guidelines I imposed on those invites were:

1. If We (the couple) haven't spoken to them in more than five years, not invited

2. If one half of the couple has never met them (we've been together ten years), not invited

3. Under 18, not invited

4. If they are known to cause drama, not invited

It's helped tremendously!

If you're not close with any of your cousins, the only way to cause as little drama as possible would be to invite none of them. If you invite some and not the others, you'll cause a lot more drama than it is worth!