I need help deciding on inviting my aunt and her 13, yes 13 kids to my wedding. For some background my aunt has very interesting parenting styles....aka she kicks them out of her house as soon as they turn 18 and a whole bunch of other drama.
I don't think she will make a scene at the wedding if she's invited but she is someone who I really just do not like. Her husband is my father's brother and he is the kindest man you'll ever meet. My aunt has refused to send me any form of birthday or Christmas or graduation card after elementary school (of which my uncle later sneaks me one just from him), but I know she'll expect an invite and will start some family drama.
I wish I could invite only my uncle and cousins but he can't keep track of all the kids alone and we are having kids at our wedding so it would be wrong to ask for just him to attend. What do you guys think? Is it okay of me to only invite my uncle? Should I invite the aunt anyways? 
