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Invite Bridesmaids/Groomsmen Families??

Paige, on February 25, 2016 at 11:42 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 8

I am curious if you should invite the family of your bridesmaids and groomsmen? Some of the parents we are close too and others we are not. Wondering if it is considered rude if we don't invite their parents?

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Latest activity by SAD, on February 26, 2016 at 10:38 AM
  • TwoGeeksWed
    Expert April 2016
    TwoGeeksWed ·
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    I'm inviting the Mom of one of my bridesmaids, but she was second Mom to me when we were growing up. Heck, I've known this particular bridesmaid since we were both in diapers! Other than that, we aren't inviting the parents of our bridal party.

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  • Flufflepuff
    Master June 2017
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    Only if you know their families well enough. If you don't know their parents, don't invite them.

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    You definitely don't have to invite the family of the bridesmaids and groomsmen (just their significant others). If you would invite their parents anyway then do so, but not just because their son or daughter is in your bridal party!

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  • Laura S
    Super December 2016
    Laura S ·
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    Definitely not!!

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  • Holly
    Master February 2017
    Holly ·
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    I'm inviting the mom of one of my bridesmaids and both parents of another. That's because I'm close to them though, it's not necessary.

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  • Kristy
    Master November 2015
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    No you don't have to. Only if you know them and are close to them and want to invite them. Its ok to invite some and not others.

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  • Mrswelch
    Master December 2017
    Mrswelch ·
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    This is something I struggled with... One of my good friends, potential BM, has a rather large family. I do know her family, I wouldn't say we're exceptionally close but I know them. I spent a lot of time at this friend's house when we were in middle and high school. If I did invite family, it would be from this friend and one other, but seeing as how we're trying to cut the guest list and not add to it...it probably won't happen and I can only hope they'll understand.

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  • SAD
    VIP March 2016
    SAD ·
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    Only if they are people you would normally invite anyways. I am inviting the parents of one of my bridesmaids, but only because we are close to them anyways and would love to have them there regardless of whether or not their daughter was one of our bridesmaids.

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