We send out our bridesmaids tomorrow. [A trial run in anything never hurt anyone.]
We've already had people confirming our date this week so they can book flights, so we decided it's time. 10 weeks this coming Saturday, so we are ready.
Venue capacity: 240.
Invited total: 240 + bride and groom (venue told us 250 was fine when we looked at it and gave them ballpark figures.)
I'm a little nervous about people possibly trying to bring uninvited kids or his cousins bringing plus ones. But we're just hoping for 20 people to decline... and we know of 6 invited children getting babysitters so... only 14 more declines needed. I think we will make it.
As long as everyone fits, I'm not going to be confrontational if his cousin brings a girl.Faux paus 😱: *we only invited children if we had met them - or if they were teenys. We only invited adults we know. Same rules were applied to the kids. [I can feel some of you getting so angry right now, and I don't care.]
*One person we sent a save the date to was not invited... but he's been a real moron lately. Fiance's grandma told him he was not allowed to attend family functions anymore, and we obliged.
I'm crossing my fingers that RSVPs will start coming back as early as next week!!