Invitation wording

So my father is paying for most of the big ticket items in our wedding. Me and FH are also paying for a lot of vendors and decorations ourselves. My mother bought my dress. His family has not contributed but I didn't expect them to. He does not know his father and his mother would offer to help if she could afford it. No biggie. We are very grateful for the help we have received because we could not do it all ourselves and I know not every bride has that luxury. I am starting to work on formal invitations.... curious as to how to word them. From my understanding the names of the people who host the wedding are the first on the invitation. I've seen the parents of the brides names, the bride and grooms name, and "together with their families". Also my parents are divorced. I don't want to put both of their names and take away from all my father did, because without him there would be no wedding. I also don't want to say "together with their families" to again take away from what my father has done. But if I just put my father's name, I could offend my mother who graciously paid for my gown. Also I would want to include me and FH as the host because we are spending a great deal of money ourselves. Do I sound like a brat? Idk how to handle this...