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Lexie
Beginner December 2020

Invitation wording

Lexie, on September 7, 2020 at 11:09 AM Posted in Planning 0 13
Hi all!
We’re getting married 12/12/20, we’re hopeful so still sending out invites!
My dad passed away in February and I was still hoping to find the right wording to have his name on the invite because before he passed he did help us do some planning. Has anyone had any luck doing this? Any ideas? Or is it too odd?
Thank you!

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  • J
    Master October 2022
    Jana ·
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    Together with their parents...
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  • Lexie
    Beginner December 2020
    Lexie ·
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    I totally would but his parents aren’t really helping. As petty as it sounds I want to give credit where it’s due 😅
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  • J
    Master October 2022
    Jana ·
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    Not sure how you would do that. The invite lists who hosts the wedding, not who contributed to planning.
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  • Lexie
    Beginner December 2020
    Lexie ·
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    Yeah that’s the problem, his family isn’t really hosting. They’re not too involved in much of anything.
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  • J
    Master October 2022
    Jana ·
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    In that case, just list you and your fiance, no parents.
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  • Katie
    Expert January 2021
    Katie ·
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    Agreed, this is an all or nothing thing.
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  • C
    Just Said Yes February 2022
    Caroline ·
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    You could put “bride (daughter of mother & the late ___) & Groom (son of mother & father) invite you to join in their day...


    This way you can still have your parents names but it’s not as if either is hosting
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  • VIP August 2020
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    I'm very sorry for your loss. I'm also sorry that I don't have a better way to phrase most of my response:
    Is your mom hosting? Were your parents married at the time your dad passed away? Are you paying for the wedding with money left to you by your dad?

    Mrs. or Mrs. [Lexie's mom] and the late Mr. [Lexie's dad] request the pleasure of your company at the marriage of their daughter Lexie and [fiancé].
    If you're hosting it without any help from living parents, you should probably use Caroline's suggestion. You can find other ways to honor your dad on the day of your wedding.
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  • Lexie
    Beginner December 2020
    Lexie ·
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    Hi! Thank you very much.
    My parents were married at the time my dad passed. They were hosting before he passed. My mom obviously still is, but not with money that he left as it was sudden.
    I love your suggestion- thank you so much!
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  • Lexie
    Beginner December 2020
    Lexie ·
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    Thanks for your input. I think it just makes it hard as my family is the one hosting. I wasn’t sure how to include my dad in it since he had done a lot while he was still here.
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  • Lexie
    Beginner December 2020
    Lexie ·
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    Thank you, Caroline!
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  • Lexie
    Beginner December 2020
    Lexie ·
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    Thanks for your input!
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  • VIP August 2020
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    Great! Good luck with everything!
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