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OnTheWayToMrsA
Super August 2017

Invitation Wording Help

OnTheWayToMrsA, on May 22, 2017 at 7:48 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 7

We are trying to come up with the correct wording for our wedding invitations. Our moms are helping us pay, so four of us in total are contributing, and both of our dads have passed (which we're choosing to leave off the invitations). None of us mind the order of our names, I just want to be sure I'm writing it correctly. Here are the two options I have, but please feel free to correct me or suggest something else:

Mrs. Bride Mom and Mrs. Groom Mom

request the honor of your presence at the marriage of their children

BRIDE_FIRST MIDDLE LAST

and

GROOM_FIRST MIDDLE LAST

**or**

Together with

Mrs. Bride Mom and Mrs. Groom Mom

BRIDE_FIRST MIDDLE LAST

and

GROOM_FIRST MIDDLE LAST

request the honor of your presence at their wedding

Are either of these okay? The 50% off WPD sale ends tomorrow, I need to get these orders in lol.

ETA: Our ceremony starts at 6:30pm but the venue opens at 6pm for welcome drinks, etc. Which time should I put on the invitation?

7 Comments

Latest activity by CaboBride2018, on May 22, 2017 at 8:26 PM
  • Elizabeth
    Dedicated April 2018
    Elizabeth ·
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    Either of those are great and I would choose based on the formality level of your wedding.

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  • muriel
    Champion June 2018
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    Both are fine. It is a matter of personal preference.

    Are you getting married in a church?

    "honor of your presence" indicates a ceremony in a house of worship.

    "the pleasure of your company": indicates the ceremony is taking place outside a place of worship.

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  • New
    VIP May 2017
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    Not to throw a wrench in your plans, but how about "Together with their families...." Bride first middle last and groom first middle last request the honor of your presence (pleasure of your company ) depending on the formality. Edit: typos

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  • OnTheWayToMrsA
    Super August 2017
    OnTheWayToMrsA ·
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    Oh, thank you! No, it will not be a religious ceremony. I'll change that, thank you Smiley smile

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  • CaboBride2018
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    I suggest:

    Mrs. (Bride's Mom)

    and

    Mrs. (Groom's Mom)

    request the pleasure of your company (...)

    The main thing is that each mom should be listed on a separate line. If you list them on the same line, it implies they are a married couple, rather than 2 separate individuals. See this link for more info: http://www.brides.com/story/guide-to-wedding-invitation-wording

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  • OnTheWayToMrsA
    Super August 2017
    OnTheWayToMrsA ·
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    @Cabo, that's exactly what I said! I loved the way it sounded at first, but there was something slightly off about it. I'll see if I have room to put their names on separate lines.

    I have one more question (which I'll also add to my original post): Our ceremony starts at 6:30pm but the venue opens at 6pm for welcome drinks, etc. Which time should I put on the invitation?

    ETA: That link is very helpful, thank you.

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  • CaboBride2018
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    I don't think there's anything "off" about the wording, but if you don't like it, you can always fall back on "Together with their families" Smiley smile

    Start time is hotly debated on this forum, but since you have welcome drinks available, I think it's okay to put 6pm to make sure everyone gets there on time.

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