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aanchal
Just Said Yes May 2018

Indian-Mexican fusion wedding ideas?

aanchal, on May 22, 2017 at 1:39 AM Posted in Planning 0 7

My FH and I are planning 2 separate ceremonies to incorporate both our cultures into our wedding(s). As if planning for one wasn't stressful enough! Any fun and positive ideas y'all wanna share?

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Latest activity by Jamie S., on May 25, 2017 at 10:50 PM
  • Sarah
    Super June 2017
    Sarah ·
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    Can't help with specifics as I don't know anything about Mexican wedding traditions and very little about Indian traditions. In general, you can do two ceremonies, incorporate the most important two-three elements from each culture into a fused ceremony, or do a simple ceremony with cultural elements saved for the reception.

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  • Michael V
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    I'd start with finding a bilingual officiant who can deliver key elements of your ceremony in Spanish. Popular cultural options include readings (biblical or secular), unity candle, El Lazo and Las Arras. Best wishes!

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  • Jamie S.
    Expert May 2017
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    Hey! I can't claim to know a ton about Mexican weddings, I've only been to one. However, the ceremony I was at was super long (like almost 2 hrs). I'm assuming that your Indian ceremony is Hindu and the Mexican ceremony is catholic?

    I think the challenge you'll have (if you want to do it all in the same day) is that you'll be really tight on time in order to do each individual ceremony justice. We had a really rigorous timeline for our wedding. To summarize, I started getting ready at 6am for a 10:45 ceremony start time (first look at 9, baraat at 10). The Hindu priest was to end by 12, but ran over by about 30 mins. Then we inhaled brunch, took about an hour for pics while our guests finished eating, and redid H/MU, changed clothes, and ready to start part 2 by 3:45pm with another "first look". That said, our second ceremony was only about 35 mins and we had plenty of time for cocktail hour, and reception that ended at 11:30pm. At the reception we did not do special dances (only cake cutting and our first dance), and we had about 40 mins of speeches at the beginning.

    I did it all without a wedding coordinator and it went pretty smoothly, so I'm not saying it isn't doable but it is tough! If your ceremonies will be long, and/or if you have lots of traditions you need to honor separately, my biggest suggestion would be to do 2 days. Otherwise, you and your guests might go crazy and be super rushed.

    If you can truly fuse to one ceremony that would be awesome (example being the knot tying ceremony in the Indian ceremony and lasso in the Mexican ceremony) but culturally it may not work in order to try and make everyone happy, and to find an officiant knowledgeable enough about both cultures and willing to do it.

    Last suggestion- feeds your guests well and plenty!!!

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  • aanchal
    Just Said Yes May 2018
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    Thanks guys! All these are super helpful. We were thinking about separating them out in 2 days so we're not rushed!

    Speaking of which; Henna on with white dress; yay or nay?

    I'm also having trouble finding a good photographer who will charge for per day instead of per hour. ??

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  • MJ
    VIP April 2017
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    I had a Cambodian and American ceremonies over 2 days. Cambodian ceremonies are several days but we instead just picked a few rituals to perform during ceremony. It began Friday evening and then onto Saturday morning. Saturday evening we had our American ceremony followed by reception. I was so exhausted on Saturday! But I'm glad I was able to do both.

    To add: I remember seeing wedding pics of maybe Indian and American ceremonies not too long ago. Looked really nice and might give you some ideas

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  • Jamie S.
    Expert May 2017
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    I had henna with my white dress, I didn't do it all the way up the back side of my forearm, only the palm side, but i loved the way it looked Smiley smile

    Where are you located? Our photographer (Chicago)was amazing, affordable, and rates were for the whole day. They travel too.


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  • Jamie S.
    Expert May 2017
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    Oops double post sorry

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