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Shantae
Beginner October 2022

Incorporating my kiddo his new stepkiddo into the ceremony ....

Shantae, on January 26, 2020 at 5:27 PM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 8

Hey ya`ll we want to incorperate the kiddo into the ceremony but not sure how. We have thought about vows , a small type of cremony that would be a blend of us three. Not go into anything deeply personal ; he sees FH as his dad (calls him that or his actual name) more than his dad dad (what he calls his bio father) FH has spent more time and attention and love on him than his bio.


Anyway what tips or advice or what have yall done to blend the ceremony?

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Latest activity by Kendra, on January 27, 2020 at 10:36 AM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    I'm usually not a big fan of unity ceremonies, but blending families is the exception. What about a sand ceremony for the 3 of you? Your FH could ask your son to be his best man?

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  • Mrs. S
    Master November 2019
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    I grew up in a blended family. We did a prayer together. It was low pressure but really sweet.
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  • Shantae
    Beginner October 2022
    Shantae ·
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    I agree with you on that. It is something special when it comes to blending familes.

    Ohh great idea I will ask him about that. We have my best friend/ our mutual friend being my bridesperson. They really encouraged me to get with him and not run ( was not used to a really good guy)

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  • Shantae
    Beginner October 2022
    Shantae ·
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    Aww that is sweet! Yeah something sweet but no pressure is a good idea. Thanks!

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  • Mrs. Bubba
    VIP September 2019
    Mrs. Bubba ·
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    Unity Ceremony.
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  • Mrs. Bubba
    VIP September 2019
    Mrs. Bubba ·
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    My former co-worker had 6 👩‍👦‍👦👨‍👨‍👦🙇‍♂️(2 bio, 2 sets of adopted Twins) and her Husband had 👨‍👧‍👦. They did a Sand Ceremony, everyone walked around a Table to pour the Sand.
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  • Bryana
    Dedicated April 2021
    Bryana ·
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    My son is going to be the ring bearer and instead of sitting down after he will stay standing up with the best man and groomsman.
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  • Kendra
    Devoted August 2020
    Kendra ·
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    I don't have it all put together fully, but my FH has a daughter and I have a bracelet I am going to give her during the ceremony. I think it will happen after FH and I exchange vows and rings. I have one to match her that I will wear down the aisle.


    I want her to know, regardless of what happens (her mom is still angry and hateful), I'll always be her cheerleader. No matter what, I'll be there to support and love her too. That I will never replace her mom (nor do I want to) but that I'll be an addition to her life.

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