So both my FH and I have kids that we're bringing into the marriage but I'm not sure how to approach involvement.
FH: 2 sons, 23 and 25, 1 daughter 16 (all three will be groomspeople)
Me: 1 daughter 10. (MOH)
His kids still have a strong relationship with their mother and the youngest is a 50/50 split with time with her mother.
My daughter no longer has a relationship with her father as he just up and took off when she was 7 saying he no longer wanted to be a part of her life.
I really want my daughter to do a dance with my FH, which he's fine with, he just thinks its not okay to include my daughter but not his and he doesn't want to do 2 separate dances with them. He also wants me to dance with his 2 older boys, if he's dancing with the girls which is super awkward for me because they're grown adults, I will never be anything more than a friend to them.
Best that I've come up with is he dances to one song starting with his daughter and having my daughter cut in half way through. But I feel that may make his daughter feel that she's being replaced which I don't want.
Anyone have ideas on what can be done with making everyone comfortable?
