Including brothers in wedding

I think a reading is a lovely idea? Or maybe he could do a toast at the reception?

View Quoted Comment Thank you, I just didn’t know if readings still took place at venue ceremony’s or if this was just a church thing. I love this idea thank you

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Yeah I think it's fine to do at any ceremony! We personally didn't have any readings but I've been to non-church weddings where they've had readings.

I went through a similar dilemma with my two brothers. My oldest brother is officiating the wedding, and then my other brother is an usher. At first he was offended because he thought he was the only one not asked to be a groomsmen, but then when he learned that oldest brother was officiating he loosened up.

Personally, I don't think just doing a reading is enough. But that's just me. Could your brother be an usher? Or both?

View Quoted Comment They are all groomsman as well lol

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So all three of your brothers are groomsmen and only two of them have extra jobs?

View Quoted Comment Yes that is the situation lol

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Oh, the groomsmen part was not in your original post.

Honestly, since he is already a groomsmen, I would not give him another job. If he wasn't already standing up there, then I would definitely say he should do a reading or be an usher. But since he is a groomsmen, then he already has a job and probably doesn't need to do anything else. If you are not as close with him as your other brothers, then being a groomsmen is enough.