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Cassandra
Savvy May 2020

In-laws Planning Honeymoon

Cassandra, on February 21, 2019 at 12:22 PM Posted in Honeymoon 0 8
My future in-laws are planning and paying for our honeymoon as their “contribution to the wedding” they are really excited and said we will love it. I’m soooo nervous because we aren’t finding out until our wedding day where we will be going, and we will be leaving that same week for the honeymoon! Our wedding is May 30th 2020 so the weather should be nice anywhere we go, but how do we plan how to pack and stuff without knowing where we will be going?

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Latest activity by Adrienne Spragg, on February 21, 2019 at 9:58 PM
  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    This would be way too much for me, I would not allow anyone other than my fiance to plan a surprise trip for me haha but since it's paid for, that's nice! I'd just ask them a month or so in advance what temperatures to pack for and what kind of activities, so you know if you need bathing suits or workout clothes or nice clothes, etc. It could still be pretty cold in May in some places. Occasionally it snows in Colorado in May and it's rainy a lot of places in May and June.

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  • Clara
    Dedicated August 2019
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    This sounds fun and so sweet of them! But I would be totally nervous too. I'm a planner and like to know what to pack. I'd ask them for a list of essential items you'd need to make sure you bring like what types of shoes, swimsuits, etc.

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  • Jori
    Savvy October 2019
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    I'm sure you can ask them "what should I pack?".

    Honeymoons are VERY Expensive, that is so sweet of them. Smiley smile

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  • Kristen
    VIP June 2020
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    My in laws will be paying for a significant portion of not all of ours, but we are planning it under their budget. I would not be able to handle your situation as I would want advance notice to pack and buy any necessary travel items.
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  • Cassandra
    Savvy May 2020
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    That’s why I’m kind of freaking out, but it’s skmething they REALLY wanted to do and we are really thankful for it, I just love planning ahead of time so this is hard lol
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  • Melissa
    VIP September 2019
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    That’s awfully nice of them but like you, I would be nervous too. I like to know where I’m going and pack accordingly. Like what if I need something I don’t already own that they haven’t thought of? Maybe you can ask that they reveal it at a shower or bachelorette so that you can be prepared?
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  • Cristy
    Master May 2021
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    Hey Cassandra!! You and I are date twins!!! Congratulations!

    Your FILs can probably give you a general idea of the climate where you'll be going, so you know what to pack. Be sure to ask if you'll need to bring something dressy (like for a night out), or any specific kinds of shoes (if there will be hiking, for example). Beyond that, it should be fairly simple.

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  • Adrienne Spragg
    December 2020
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    Hi Cassandra! I work in the travel field and we have had similar situations where in-laws plan the honeymoon, or even the groom or bride plan the honeymoon as a surprise without letting their partner in on any of the details. In any case, but especially when it's a surprise, we provide a packing list for the couple, so I'd recommend you ask them for something similar! I'm a planner too, and I hate to arrive on holiday and realize I'd brought all the wrong things, or didn't have appropriate clothing for planned events and activities.

    If they're not comfortable to provide you with a packing list, maybe you can ask a travel-savvy friend or family member to liaise with your in-laws to put something together? Just a thought. Best of luck!

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