Good morning lovelies!
So my relationship with my in-laws is basically non-existent. My FH's mom hates me, and we haven't spoken to her in almost two years. His sister and I were best friends, but due to family drama between them and their mom, we don't speak to her either. It's a little more complicated though, because his sister and I work together. I won't get into the details, but suffice it to say there was a lot of shady underhanded stuff that his mom and sister were a part of and we separated ourselves due to that. They ARE NOT invited to our wedding.
Here we are -- getting married in 62 days. And we just found out that we're having a baby. FH doesn't even want to tell them. Personally I think it'll make my work life VERY difficult if we don't get ahead of it and do a simple "hey, we're having a baby. Just wanted you to hear it from us" type thing. FH's argument is that he doesn't want them to interpret that as an invitation back into our lives. As I said I think it'll make my work life really bad -- when the issues with his sister started, she tried to get me fired from my job, spread all kinds of rumors about me, and generally made my life so miserable that I started having anxiety attacks almost daily and was a wreck. I don't want that again.
So what do you ladies think is the best, most mature way to handle this situation?