My fiance and I just decided to postpone our July wedding due to COVID. My bridal shower and bachelorette party were supposed to be happening in May and June, but we've decided to postpone those events as well. We have decided to elope in June with just our immediate families, as we've already signed a lease and don't want to live together before we're married. We will likely be having the big ceremony and reception in October or December now. We will then postpone the bridal shower, bachelorette/bachelor's party as well. My question is this-- will it be tacky to have the bridal shower and bachelorette party after I'm already technically married? I don't want to miss out on all of the events that I've been looking forward to for so long.