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Sheila
Just Said Yes October 2019

I'm crushed stuff happens for a reason

Sheila, on May 13, 2019 at 10:03 AM Posted in Planning 0 4
Wow, well Here we sit 6 months out of when we are supppsed too be marrried. N All hell has broke loose. We moved unexpectedly after 8 years in the home it was sold and we didnt even know it was happening. SO Now I have too post pone our wedding .. I am so upset but, I don't wanna settle when I only plan on doing it one time. I have Bought my dress paid in full. The venue, is half paid for and there willing too give it back our hold it . I JUST don't even know where too go from here. I think we should just go elope.

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Latest activity by D, on May 14, 2019 at 1:31 PM
  • Sinéad
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2025
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    Hi Sheila! I’m so sorry that this has happened to you! It must have come as such an awful surprise.

    Have you contacted all of your vendors to explain about your need to postpone? It’s great that your venue is being so accommodating by offering to refund what you have already paid.

    I feel like you should take a step back and take stock of the situation. You were planning a wedding, so presumably, that is what you want. Is eloping what you actually want, or does it just seem like a solution right now? There is nothing wrong with eloping but it’s still important to do what will make you and your SO happy.

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  • Tina
    Super August 2019
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    So sorry. Maybe just let the dust settle and see how you feel after you are settled into your new home. =(

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  • Summer
    Dedicated June 2019
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    I agree with Tina. I would give yourself some time to settle and get used to these changes and then start again. Your venue sounds very understanding so I am sure that they will gladly work with you when you feel like you are ready to start again. Good luck!

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  • D
    Super July 2020
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    Sheila I'm so sorry. No don't settle if the vendors are willing to work with you. Finding a new house after 8 years must have come as a shock. It can also be seen as a new beginning for you and FH.
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