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Lisa
Savvy August 2021

I was called a bridezilla

Lisa, on January 31, 2020 at 6:02 PM Posted in Planning 0 9

So my fiancé called me a bridezilla today. They nerve of this guy (LOL). So we have been planning our wedding alone from October of 2019 for August 2020. I simply asked him to call a few folks and he makes it seem like it’s such a hard task. Then we decided on a color scheme for our reception attire and he has added several other colors that we did not decide on at all. I explained that we have to look as a union and match slightly but he does not understand that. I gave him the space to be creative but now I am regretting it. In addition, our reception attire is being custom made which he spoke to the seamstress and explained everything he would like ( this was in the beginning of January 2020) now that production has started he wants to change the color of the pants. The seamstress was very clear that once production has begun we can exchange or change custom pieces. Am I asking for too much?? This is so stressful. He knows nothing about due dates of the vendors/ fitting. I am literally holding his hand every step of the way but he can’t take proper direction! Smdh #Ventdone #BridezillaChronicles.

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Latest activity by Lisa, on February 2, 2020 at 2:06 PM
  • Lisa
    Savvy August 2021
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    *We cannot exchange*
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  • VIP November 2021
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    Ahhhh sorry!!! We are the opposite basically had all vendors decided on since before the engagement so that was easy-peasy BUT he is GROOMZILLA - to the MAX. Lol he needs to know every detail, etc. it drives me nuts like We did the major things as a team the details are on me so just let me do them and just SHOW UP hahaha he doesn’t want part of deciding on small things which I understand but then don’t question and comment them !!! Ahhhh wine time ???? (For me it’s whiskey time but 🤷🏼‍♀️🤣)
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  • Lisa
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    Girllll! I need more than just wine! I will be bald by August, lol. tenor.gif

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  • VIP November 2021
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    I understand 🤣🤷🏼‍♀️


    Sending you strength girl !!! 🥃
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  • Lisa
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    Thx 😊 hun
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  • M
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    Aw Sorry hes not being fair. Sometimes my FH tells me “Im more interested in the party of getting married than actually being married”. He says that when Im giving wedding planning full attention. Sometimes I gently explain to him its not like that at all its just sometimes things take a lot of time. And sometimes I tell him LOOK I got a LOT of #@$! to do, this is what we agreed on when we decided to do everything ourselves *excuse me Myself* this stuff is going to take time but If YOU want to do it for me instead let me get my checklist of all my DIY I need done, vendors I need to call and stuff I need to research then I can sit down while you take over.


    We can take it there if we need to hunty but its best we get on the same page. Not fair your FH is all over the place he needs to understand executive decisions need to be made, you guys need to stay on track & in agreement with stuff without changing decisions.
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  • Lisa
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    Thanks for the cheer up. In his defense he does all the cooking/ laundry, because I also work 60 hour weeks and working on my masters. Planning a wedding is stressful in it’s self. We just need to be understanding and considerate of each other. Here’s to forever!!tenor.gif

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  • Erin
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    I recently had a conversation with my fiance where I said I don't mind doing the wedding planning but it'd be nice to be told thank you every once in a while. I've kept him in the loop as far as details go, but I'm doing all the research leading up to those decisions and also communicating with the vendors and managing the budget as well as working full time and we just bought a house. He has no idea the level of stress Smiley xd since then he's said thank you and that nothing would be happening if it weren't for me so that felt pretty good!

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  • Lisa
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    All we really want is some appreciation! I am glad it’s working out for ya.
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