i want Fall but... my fh wants Spring

I would definitely keep both seasons in mind. I'm getting married in fall, but it was going to be spring at first, and a spring wedding would have cost us significantly more

I always thought I had to get married in the summer because I'm a teacher. However, FH wanted a Fall wedding, and I too wanted to give him a say in decision making. So we are getting married in the Fall and neither of us will be all sweaty because Michigan summers can be brutal.

Is there a reason he wants Spring? Have you mentioned to him the weather concerns?

A fall wedding is usually cheaper because it's considered the off season. Just something to consider!

The great thing about looking at venues without a date in mind is getting to price compare dates. We ended up going with November because it's cheaper than October. Almost went with February at another venue for the same reason. Plus, you have plenty of time so I'd just take the pressure off yourself to choose at this point.

I would certainly look at both seasons. My husband and I were in the same position as you - only reversed (he wanted fall, and I wanted winter)! I am in Philadelphia and since I wanted off-season, that left the cusp of winter in both directions.

In the end, our decision was made based on the amount of events in the fall. I did not want to get married during back to back holidays and birthdays (lots of fall birthdays in our family). So we were married in mid-April.