I always wanted to have personalised vows at my wedding because I think they form the most beautiful part of the wedding ceremony and are what make the ceremony sentimental.
We are only going to have about 40-50 people present for the ceremony but FH is stressing out about the idea of reading out our own vows. I told him that they’d essentially contain the same things as what we write in our cards to each other on our anniversary but spoken aloud, though this hasn’t put him at ease.
I don’t want him to be uncomfortable but I’m also a bit upset because this whole time I thought we’d be writing and sharing our own vows.
Did any of you want personalised vows but not get to do them? Did you feel like your ceremony was still as heartfelt and sentimental / did you regret not including them?