I just want this thing OVER WITH!!!!

RELAX, no matter what happens or "goes wrong" these will all just be funny memories you remember for years to come. You are marrying the love of your life. That is the only thing that matters at the end of the day. No one will notice anything that "went wrong" but you. Remember that!

I've been so over the planning since before I started planning ! Lol. It is the little details that stress me out also. The best man speech will be fine and if he doesn't prepare it then it will just be short and he will be embarrassed, it's no reflection on you. Rehearsal will be fine just plan out what you want to tell everyone in regards to the ceremony and processional and entering the wedding and feed people or give them drinks and you'll be fine. Don't lose sleep, or try not to because you don't want to be fatigued for your big day. Goodluck !!!!

I feel you... I really haven't had any issues or drama until the past couple days, when I found out a distant cousin (who wasn't invited) was planning on coming... She was all "oh i've made a gift and I have a hotel room!" I just had to be a big bitch and say nope, sorry. No room. Ugh. I'm ready for it to be over just so I can be done planning and go back to normal life!

Aw, those little things that you can't control? Let them go. You've done what you can. Time to relax and enjoy your week!

I completely understand. I'm 17 days away and I'm over it. I have been for months. Having to worry about every little thing. I am the same way. I can't wait for the day to come. I think a courthouse wedding would have been just fine at this point.

It's normal. Don't stress on the tiny details in the end no one will notice and you won't even care the day of because you are too busy celebrating. I think once you accept the fact that things WILL go wrong you'll start to feel better. Trust that all your hard work and planning will fall into place because it will and you will have the best day of your life. Good luck!

Take a deep breath and remember it's only one day...and everything will come together how it should. You get to marry a great person (I'm assuming) and take a kick a$$ vacation/honeymoon. Enjoy it!

@LovelyLovely - what YOU said exactly! Lol

Amen! I'm 5 mo out and I'm stuck between wanting it over with and panicking because I feel like nothing is done.

I feel ya! 10 days out and people are coming at me with "should I....", "can I .....", "do you want...." questions and I'm like I. Don't. Care. Haha! I know it'll all come together and as long as we have good food, booze and a DJ we'll be fine and no one will care about the little details. Until then, thank god there's wine.

I am right there with you! Also started planning in July, but I have to wait until October

I hear ya! I don't have a set day-of timeline yet. Waiting to hear back from a couple vendors yet. :\

This was me the night before my wedding. Helped me destress a lot! (Obviously an over exaggeration lol)

Just chill and enjoy it all. Sure things are annoying, that's life, but your only going to get this day once. (Well suppose to be only once) so make the most of it and enjoy every minute even the annoying ones!

You're almost there! I went with the simplest details in order to not have to do much this week but there are still more things I hadn't thought to factor in so I understand how you feel. I'm letting most things slide because really, who will notice? Ha!

#TeamWine the week and days leading up to your weddng. It helps a lot

Relax....no matter what happens you will be a beautiful bride and making memories with your FH is all that matters..

You will be fine! Take a pill

Thanks ladies, for all your encouraging words! I feel like its one of those things that I will have to have a feel for on the day of for me to feel confident about all the things that are going on. I guess I'll have the best idea on the day of the rehearsal (Friday). Meanwhile, yes, I will take the wine and try to de-stress for the next few days xD

I know how you feel because I got to plan my moms wedding and omg it was super stressful I was running around like a chicken with his head cut off haha I had to translate everything since my mom family speak a other language, but at the end it was such a beautiful ceremony I loved it !! Now I'm stressing about mine wedding and I don't get married into May of Next year... just relax like the other girls say and enjoy ur special day !!