i have 2 options!

Since September is just a few weeks away… I’d vote option #1 to make it easy on everyone and let them wear what they want since you already have formal photos. Kinda goes with your low stress theme for the reception too!

Will they have enough time to get new outfits in such a short period of time? Will they have to get alterations or anything of that such or just new outfits that doesn’t require any additional work? If so, I’d say go with option 1. It’s the easiest because option 2, they might spend too much time trying to match perfectly.

If your bridal party already paid for their outfits for your last celebration, I would not require them to purchase anything else. I would just let them wear whatever they wanted. Or, if you want them in a certain outfit/colors, then I would cover those costs for them.

Don’t ask anyone to get new clothes unless you plan to cover all expenses. Also as far as introductions of the attendants, are they all extroverted? Being introduced with fanfare is an introvert’s nightmare. They will do most anything you ask but it’s unnecessary stress.

View Quoted Comment Thank you tons! Should I have the Dj just introduce my husband and I then and not have the bridal party introduced?

If you're just having a reception this time around and not a vow renewal/symbolic ceremony, then I don't think you need a bridal party at all (in other words, your original attendants can enjoy being guests without "duties").

I agree with the above comments that you should not ask them to purchase new outfits when they already did that for your first wedding.

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Yes to this, exactly. Whether or not you have them introduced is completely up to your preference. I personally wouldn't bother with that since this is an informal party and your guests won't be witnessing your bridal party do anything that needs introductions.

Cathleen ! Congrats on your wedding. I think everyone is presenting valid points. I agree on not asking people for new outfits... Are the dresses they had for the last one in the same color range of your colors now? If so, maybe ask them to wear their hair down ... no up dos or anything that would upstage you... like wearing something more boho ... maybe a flower crown or simple earrings with beachy hair ... that can take a very formal dress down quite a bit .. maybe posting some photos might help people give you better ideas. Either way, the important thing is that they will come and spend this special day with you !

I agree with the others in not having your BP buy new attire as they dressed for the real wedding. If they can fit into their 2020 dresses that could be an option, but it's probably best they wear what they feel comfortable. You can designate their special role with a cloth flower pin or corsage and take a picture altogether. You can toast them at your party, but it's unncecessary to replay the 2020 wedding since you want an informal party.

Option 1 so there is really no alteration to be done and have a great time at your reception