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Kass
Just Said Yes October 2024

i hate fiance's suit choice and didn't know if i should tell him

Kass, on June 17, 2023 at 3:41 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 3
He mentioned wanting to wear his pinstripe suit. He has no idea I hate pinstripe suits. I think they look terrible on anyone younger than my grandpa, and anyone who isn't playing a character. Pinstripe suits make me think of old timey mobsters, 1980's walstreet, pimps, and clowns.


The last time I saw this pinstripe suit was when we first started dating and he wanted to show off how well he cleans up. I awkwardly smiled and went, "Oh yeah, you look great!" because I didn't know him well enough yet and there was no sense in hurting his feelings when committing to a relationship was the furthest thing from my mind at the time.
Fast forward to today. I am madly in love with this guy and I accept the vast majority of his goofy fashion choices. I felt a slight twinge of embarrassment when he wore a skin-tight spandex superman shirt and khaki pants for meeting my parents for the first time, but I quickly got over that and had a great time. But that feeling I had is nothing compared to the twisting in my gut I feel about the pinstripe suit at our wedding. I'd rather hole-y jeans and tux-printed t-shirt, because at least that might be funny. I don't know why I feel so strongly about this and I don't know if I can let it go. I feel bad for not being honest with him about my opinion on the suit the first time I saw it. I'm wondering if I should come clean about it or if I should just smile through my own cringe because he loves the suit.

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Latest activity by John, on June 18, 2023 at 6:50 PM
  • Kass
    Just Said Yes October 2024
    Kass ·
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    Please disregard. I am trying to figure out how to delete this. I posted on the internet while feeling emotional, and that's just not a thing to get worked up over. I can just tell him I don't like the suit. We're both adults and we love each other and he can hear my opinion without it destroying him and I can live with him choosing whatever makes him happy.


    This was dumb and I'm sorry for wasting your time lol.
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    Beginner September 2024
    Alexia ·
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    It is great that you figured it out.

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  • John
    Beginner October 2024
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    Not a waste of time. Good luck; and feel free to vent where you feel safe.
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