So, I have a weird situation. I have two close friends. One is married and one isn’t. I made them both my matron and maid of honor. They both are kind of nuts and placed an unbelievably large amount of stress and fictional expectations on themselves and within the last week, both have essentially said they don’t want to be my maids of honor anymore. It’s weird because they don’t even have to plan the bachelorette party. I’m doing it because they are both last-minute about everything. There’s literally nothing they have to do besides be there on the day and the rehearsal dinner. I’ve got a planner and I’m a diy dork, so I’m good on basically all aspects of planning. Not to mention, my mom is doing all the showers because one already panicked (mind you, we are 8 months and some change out), but obviously it really hurt my feelings. Thoughts on how I should proceed? I’m really upset about it and not sure what I should say.