So let me start off by saying I wanted a very small wedding. Just a private ceremony with immediate family. My fiance has a big family and insisted we have a large wedding. He said that he thinks I would regret not having a big wedding because "every girl dreams of one". So we've been engaged for almost 2 years because our date was the earliest date our venue had. Having a long engagement is not for me.
But of course there is a lot of planning (and money) that goes into planning a wedding with 150+ people, and im basically doing all of it. Every time I ask FH for help, he always forgets or just doesn't do it. Im beyond frustrated because i didn't want any of this. I personally think what we are spending is ridiculous for one day, and I would have loved to put it toward a house. I just don't think its fair that I'm not the one that wanted this large wedding and now im stuck helping paying for it and basically doing all the planning.
I only care about getting married. I didnt want a big party, i don't want hundreds of people looking at me all day. I just wanted something small and intimate. Im sure I will have fun and I love our families, but i don't really feel excited.
Not looking for advice I just want to vent.
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