Just a vent.
All week people have been dictating plan on how our wedding will benefit them. They keep saying, "I want this, I want that, I want alcohol there." Then tonight people came tome and started telling me what food they wanted served, who they wanted to sit with. So tonight was the last straw that broke the camel's back.

I raised my voice and said

"I make my choices, deal with it! Is this your wedding? Is this your wedding?! Make plans and get bossy when YOU get married. Stop harassing me with things YOU want and deal with what is planned by my FH and myself"
Of course with my hot New Jersey temper I didn't realize I was enunciating every word while clapping my hands. I think i made my point.
To wrap it up. WE ARE IN CHARGE. DON'T WHINE. It's unbecoming of you.

This has been my TED talk.Go lay down.