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Master January 2017

I feel like my wedding is cursed

SnowQueen, on January 13, 2017 at 9:22 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 9

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So we are 2 days away, this time in two days we will be married. Right before my shower my BM's brother died so she had to go out of state. Understandable and I have fought to be so supportive, reminding her to focus on her family ect. ect. Now we are 2 days away and my other BM got into a major crash and is in the hospital, i am freaking out bc i am so worried. we grew up together and back injuries suck. Same day, I find out my FBIL's mother is in the hospital with a virus. These are the major incidents surrounding my wedding events. I know that all of these things are out of my hands but to hear the bad news like these major things is starting to make me feel like i am cursed. I almost want to put my MOH in plastic bubble to protect her from a fire or something...Naturally I go to worry first then the superficial wonders how this will affect my attendance that I already paid for, then I feel quilty about thinking that way. I am just prayer that all my people are safe just frustrated

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Latest activity by Cherelle, on January 13, 2017 at 11:27 PM

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LittleDemon · on January 13, 2017 at 9:49 PM
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Sending you hugs, cause it seems like you need them!
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Kathleen Smith · on January 13, 2017 at 9:52 PM
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Hugs and prayers.
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halle.mo · on January 13, 2017 at 9:54 PM
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Sending hugs
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Mrs. Sasswood · on January 13, 2017 at 9:54 PM
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So sorry. A lot of us have had some pretty shit things happen close to the wedding (myself included) so we get it. Continue to be supportive of people and try to enjoy your day as best you can.
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Future Mrs.S · on January 13, 2017 at 9:55 PM
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Sending prayers and hugs.
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Rachel DellaPorte · on January 13, 2017 at 9:57 PM
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Curses are BS. Life is real. So, you're not being cursed...you're going through life.

The death of a BM's sibling, the fact that another BM was involved in a major crash, the hospitalization of a middle aged woman -- this is the stuff of life. The fact that you are worried about how these tragedies will "affect my attendance that I already paid for" shouldn't even be a consideration. You're happy, and they're broken or deprived of a loved one. Get it?

Nobody wants to lose a sibling, nobody wants to be involved in a major car crash, and nobody wants to be hospitalized because they have a virus that cannot be handled at home and with medication. Your wedding, and those people you've already paid for, is not even a thought in the minds of these people right now. They are dealing with sadness that has overshadowed the joy of your wedding. Accept that, and leave them alone unless you can offer them a greeting that has nothing to do with their absence at your wedding.

Life happens, and sometimes it interferes with the best laid plans of mice and men.
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MTB · on January 13, 2017 at 10:44 PM
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Wishing you the best these next couple days!
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Jacks · on January 13, 2017 at 11:21 PM
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I hope everything goes OK for you, it's very close now.
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Cherelle · on January 13, 2017 at 11:27 PM
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Sending prayers your way.
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